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Couples Session – Decoding the Kinky Mind

“In most cases I’ve found that those who think they rarely or never fantasize are similar to people who don’t remember dreaming. They’re simply not in the habit of paying sufficiently close attention” J. Morin, Erotic Mind. It would not be an exaggeration to say that my clients’ willingness to reveal what most people prefer to keep hidden... Continue Reading →

One Awful Submissive*

*Published with permission from the subject of this post Somehow I’m wired to look for best in people, including my submissives. I understand that nobody is perfect, and do my best to focus on good qualities. When it comes to training my submissives, I look for potential. Of course, it seems to be a good... Continue Reading →

Tantric BDSM

”One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light but by making the darkness conscious.” ~ Carl Jung~   When I wrote "New Direction" a year ago I spoke about how exhausted I was by my old style of domination, which felt like a form of escapism for my clients. I felt that there... Continue Reading →

Altered States of Consciousness

Recently I've been asked by many what I enjoy the most about kink. My answer was that it varies, I enjoy different things at different times with different partners. However, when I got a chance to spend some time alone while traveling in India, I was able to dig deeper into myself and find a... Continue Reading →

On Pain and Fear

“Men are born soft and supple; dead they are stiff and hard. Plants are born tender and pliant; dead, they are brittle and dry. Thus whoever is stiff and inflexible is a disciple of death. Whoever is soft and yielding is a disciple of life. The hard and stiff will be broken. The soft and... Continue Reading →

New direction

Your journey with Ms Renee so far has been a combination of our fantasies - mine and yours. It has been a great journey, as I got a chance to rejoice in my feminine power and learn a lot about the dynamics of SM play. Over the years, I took many of my regulars quite... Continue Reading →

Bachelor Party

I think inviting strippers to bachelor party is silly. Dominatrix on the other hand, can make sure the groom is properly conditioned to serve his future wife. I recently got invited to a bachelor party by the best man. He said that the groom was a naughty boy and definitely needed to be disciplined. I had... Continue Reading →

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