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reneetrevi — Thu, 07 Nov 2013 05:39:48 +0000

Check out my interview to Daily Mail

Manhattan dominatrix with an MBA reveals the secrets of her dungeon where she gives office workers a lunchtime spanking in Midtown

PUBLISHED: 09:18 EST, 6 November 2013 |

Ticklish adventures

reneetrevi — Tue, 22 Oct 2013 02:39:10 +0000

I always knew that trying myself as a sub is a good way to understand and better connect with my submissives. Naturally, I’m very selective when it comes to choosing a partner to top me, so that’s not something I’d offer to just anyone.

Agreeing to be tickled wasn’t an easy decision by a long shot. I burst out laughing when I get my pedicures done – I’m very ticklish! However, I realize that partaking in tickling torture is all about mental control. However, being a Domme who practices extreme sports, I thought I could handle getting tickled…

To my surprise, Kelli was very skilled and her restrains were really advanced. She found my most sensitive spots and it was terrifying at times. At the same time, it was seductive and sensual – Kelli was licking and biting my feet during breaks. My body turned out to be even more ticklish than my feet, and at some point I started cursing loudly in Russian!

It was a very intense and memorable experience. I’ll definitely be more compassionate to my clients after this experience of being so helplessly restrained…

They say laughter is the best medicine. Well, I must admit that once I recovered, I felt energized, rejuvenated and inspired.

In case you’d like to read more about tickling torture and see videos, visit http://www.tickleabuse.com.

Exhibit info

reneetrevi — Wed, 16 Oct 2013 01:12:11 +0000

The following exhibit features some of my new kinky photos, which are very artistic and innovative. Ill be there for an opening reception on Thursday, Nov 17th, 6-9 PM. If you’d like to come on Thursday for the opening reception, please email me so I can consider including you in my invitation list.

Press Release – Oct.4 2013.

In their series of photographs, ATTACHé, photographers Pauline Rochas and Carole Beaupré explore the erotics of power transference through seven female subjects who harness the penetrative potentiality of the strap-on phallus. Portraying real women who incorporate this erotic accessory in their lived sexual identities, the duo photographically investigates the psychodynamic underpinnings of this taboo object as it troubles dominant orthodoxies of gender, subjectivity, and the body — opening onto untold horizons of sexuality and pleasure. The collaborators conceive of power transference as “a transition from one persona to another.” “This shift,” they say, “concerns not only pleasure, but also power, and how these two things interact with one’s identity.”

Activated by its wearer, the strap-on becomes a vehicle — not only of transference — but of transformation. A tomboy becomes a lusty Priapus, an artist engages in a pas de deux with her blow-up doll muse; a dominatrix tugs the leash of her masked boy toy; young lovers simulate penetration. Prolonged exposures create uncanny doubling effects that suggest multiple sexual positions and personalities. The subjects are enveloped in an auratic haze that evinces the bodily chaos and spiritual ecstasy of sexual frisson as two bodies collapse into one.

The fetish, as Sigmund Freud would have it, is a substitute for the penis — “a token of triumph over the threat of castration and a protection against it.” To wear a strap-on, however, is not to capitulate to feminine lack. Philosophers Judith Butler and Slavoj Zizek, informed by Freud via Jacques Lacan, articulate the difference between the penis and the phallus — between the male organ and the disembodied signifier of symbolic authority. “Because it is an idealization,” writes Butler, “…which no body can adequately approximate, the phallus is a transferable phantasm, and its naturalized link to masculine morphology can be called into question through an aggressive reterritorialization.” Rather than a totem of phallocentrism, the prosthetic penis is exposed as a transformative, pleasure-giving mechanism, a ligament that binds two partners in sexual communion. “The phallus,” Zizek quips, “is far too serious a thing for its use to be left to stupid creatures like men.”

Rochas and Beaupré’s well-equipped subjects evince a polymorphous perversity that transcends reified gender stereotypes. The ‘phallic’ woman performs an indeterminate, epicene sexuality with multiple sites of pleasure and stimulation. Nevertheless, the pair is less interested in a programmatic deconstruction of sexual norms than in an artistic celebration of Eros and psychosexual communion. Their work could be located in a lineage, not only with the phallic provocations of Linda Benglis, but with Gustav Klimt’s sleeping Danaë — seduced by the Zeus in the form of an ejaculatory shower of light. The sexual and the celestial fuse in an erotic dream state.

Collaborative partners behind the still life digital photography practice Coolife Studio, Beaupré and Rochas have mastered the art of imbuing inanimate objects with vitality. Inverting the moribund connotations of nature morte, the subjects of their commercial photographs — be it confectionery, a pair of stiletto heels, a bottle of champagne, a lipstick holster, or a set of crinkled sheets — seem to leap off the pages of glossy magazines, obliging the viewer to eat, to drink, to smell, to touch. In their shift from commercial photography to fine art, the sexual fetish replaces the fetishized commodity. By blurring the lines between subject and object, self and other, ATTACHé is at once a natural expansion of Rochas and Beaupré’s still life practice and a bold new territory for the creative duo.

Letter from my slave

reneetrevi — Sat, 05 Oct 2013 03:28:16 +0000

i feel enslaved by Your voice. i love it. i feel like i could listen to You for hours. i love Your superior Russian accent. Your powerful Russian voice weakens my nigger soul.

i keep thinking about being before You, arms suspended in the air above me as You walk around me and inspect me. i think about how completely helpless i will feel as You look me over and then take my balls in Your hand and claim them as Yours.

i have thought a lot about being introduced to Your scent…i know it will leave me powerless. i have thought a lot lately about when You said You would have me hand wash Your panties….how i would have to smell each and every one first, fully taking in Your superior scent and then wash them. i know once i smell Your scent i will become Your property…i will be made completely helpless

i am so scared of You and at the same time i cannot wait to be before You. i am scared that You will wish to castrate me someday…but i want to please You and prove that i can be a good nigger

Out of Africa

reneetrevi — Thu, 05 Sep 2013 19:15:29 +0000

I’m feeling extremely lucky this year for all these opportunities to travel and explore. This time I visited South Africa and Namibia. It was simply amazing. Beautiful landscapes, cute (and scary) animals, wild people, camp fires, 4х4 dune driving, skydiving, enjoying lots of good wine and watching stars at night…. And even some kinky paddling with a rib of a wilderbeast!
I particularly enjoyed exploring wildlife. I think I identify myself with leopards and cheetahs. I found them inspiring for their being both adorable kitties and merciless killers at the same time. They would tear to pieces anyone invading their territory. But check out this picture above: It’s a female cheetah licking her boyfriend’s ear. I took this picture last week and I keep finding myself staring at it with adoration – all I want is to cuddle those cheetahs to death!

I must admit that my life would not be so adventurous without the support of my submissives. Kinksters, you’ve contributed very positively to my world! Thanks to you, all my dreams are coming true. Your money is being spent in much more awesome way than you could do it yourself.

I’m feeling grateful, rejuvenated, and inspired to do more sessions soon.
Till then, send gifts to your Mistress!

Back to the city, eager to play :)

reneetrevi — Mon, 01 Jul 2013 03:03:55 +0000

I must confess that I love my long annual vacations to Thailand – I really need these! Being a full time Domme and a skydiver is fun but stressful. This spring was rather overwhelming for me, I felt very uplifted but eventually drained. It got particularly difficult in May as I started skydiving in the morning and sessioning later in the day… At some point I decided to trade everything for yoga in Thailand. Yes, just yoga and nothing else. Many of you would think that yoga must be boring for someone like me. However, I must say that going inward can be as exciting as seeking external adventures. Trust me, I’m not exaggerating!

I finally got back home, rejuvenated and inspired, ready to celebrate my 27th birthday! BTW, it’s on July 2nd, I’m cancerian
I was happy to see some of my regulars, can’t wait to see others, and looking forward to meet new kinksters
Wishing you all a great (and kinky) summer!

Letter from my submissive trainee

reneetrevi — Wed, 08 May 2013 19:29:40 +0000

It occurred to me that the three cardinal emotions of slave in training – Fear, Humiliation and Frustration – inherently contain the goals of the training: Obedience, Humility and Devotion. My fear of future punishments makes me run home to do the assignment, despite my tight schedule; the humiliation of having to expose myself plugged, pantied and chastised can only be endured if it comes from a place of real humility; the terrible sexual frustration generated by my celibacy leads me to an overwhelming need to serve, bend, kneel, beg and plead at my superiors feet… It’s an inevitable process of sublimation and transformation of negative emotions into slave virtues. It is happening to me already under Your direction.

As i nourish this thoughts, lying on my back, legs spread, my hand reaches for my testicles… Perhaps am i surprised to still find them there, all this has been so emasculating. They feel so soft, so fragile, so small and… redundant. Yet this is where the constant aching frustration is generated. Wouldn’t it be better if they were removed at this point?

Your words come to my mind: “…until you are completely broken”…

I feel like i am standing on the edge of the abyss.

I’m finally twitting! :)))

reneetrevi — Tue, 30 Apr 2013 18:56:14 +0000

https://twitter.com/MsReneeTrevi

reneetrevi — Mon, 08 Apr 2013 21:47:54 +0000

New photo shoot – my boys did a great job

what do you think of photos of me in action?

Foot-lovers – enjoy :)

reneetrevi — Sat, 09 Mar 2013 22:46:53 +0000

Lots of my devotees get a kick of just looking at my feet! Foot Worship, Trampling, Tickling, Foot Smelling, and Foot Domination are my beloved activities, and I even give a special rate to my foot sluts!
Those who haven’t met me jet, are very curious and ask me many questions, such as if my feet are clean, maintained, soft and smooth…The answer is Yes to all!
Take a look at these photos that show my feet in a rather artistic way. I have more coming soon!