Femdom Mentorship

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Pro-Domme Mentorship Program

Some back-story

Throughout my career, I’ve been approached by many women about Pro-Domming lessons and have tried multiple ways of sharing my knowledge and skills. I enjoyed meeting aspiring dommes and learning their stories, watching them try something new and removing the layers of misconceptions about the art of Domming. I have given group lessons, they were eye-opening, active, and fun. Some of my best memories revolve around face slapping lessons. The action of face slapping is pretty easy to learn, but the energy behind each slap is so different in every instance, depending on the intention of the giver. I loved being the observer and commentator as ladies took turns slapping their submissives, and learning from it.

Some aspects of mentoring were challenging. In particular, the lack of commitment and dedication that I often encountered. For me, Domming is a profound art and a precious part of my life. So when I decided to teach it, I approached this with the utmost seriousness and care. I was disheartened to realize that many women would come to my lessons out of a shallow curiosity rather than a real desire to learn, and I would frequently feel that my efforts were wasted. I lost interest in mentoring new Dommes and, for the past few years, I have focused on my own growth, both personal and professional.

My journey

This entire decade has been one big, focused, conscious learning experience, during which I have spared no effort and left no proverbial stone unturned in honing my craft. I have gotten to know my submissives from every psychological aspect, I have come to understand my own interactions with them and what is required of me in order to be powerful, deep and sincere. It has been a long road and the secrets I have collected along the way are many. I have a great deal of knowledge to impart, which I have gained during the course of a decade’s intensive labor, travel, exploration, analysis, and extremely varied personal interaction.

Thanks to my own feeling of maturity in my craft and by popular demand, I feel that I am ready to continue to share my knowledge. This time my vision and terms are more clearly-defined. Read on if you’d like to know what’s on offer.

On the menu

For the curious

Peekaboo for the kink-curious

If you are simply curious to see what this is all about, I’d like to welcome you to join me playing with my sub. This is a very gentle way for newcomers to get an initial glimpse into the wonderful world of consensual domination. I don’t normally do this, and neither does anyone I know. But I’m in an experimental mood, so you’re in luck.

A personalized kink lesson

If what you really want is to learn some tricks for your own edification, are not at all interested in dominating professionally, but would love to impress your partner in the bedroom or just expand your own horizons and get in touch with your power, feel free to contact me to set up a lesson. This lesson will be catered to you and your personal life situation.

In both these instances, I charge my usual hourly rate and can invite a submissive male if needed.

For aspiring dominatrixes!

 

My one-on-one mentorship deal for aspiring professional dominatrixes

Important: I will be accepting for mentorship only those who are sincere and serious about their desire to become professional dommes. If you’re sure this describes you, I am happy to take you on this unique comprehensive journey which includes the following:

  • Step-by-step info on how to begin practicing professionally
  • Hands-on training with my personal submissives as well as clients
  • The psychology of kink
  • Philosophy and spiritual aspects, the way I see it
  • Dressing up and creating a unique look
  • Marketing and advertising issues in today’s SESTA/FOSTA influenced environment
  • Legal and safety concerns
  • Dealing with time-wasters and other annoying issues
  • Play-spaces in NYC
  • Photo shoots
  • Experiencing subspace yourself to understand it better
  • Additional ways to do Domming such as selling videos and phone sessions

    All of this is leaned gradually as we’ll be meeting regularly, and I’ll make sure we won’t stop until you have all the necessary tools to be on your own. This will be approximately a month of meeting 2-3 times a week, or about 20 hours.

    Requirements

    Please understand that I value my work as sacred and will only accept trainees who understand this and appreciate it as well as I do. This means a serious commitment, and here are my requirements

  • You must read my blog articles as well as several kink-related books to have some initial understanding of my work (50 Shades of Greydoes not count).
  • You must submit a letter requesting mentorship with a description of why you would like to become a Domme
  • We must have an initial interview by Skype so we can have an understanding that we’re on the same page
  • You must have at least 50% of your time available for training – I cannot be adjusting to some strict time constraints when it comes to scheduling our time together, especially since this tends to involve a submissive model or client
  • Financial contribution is $2000

    Why I charge what I charge

    I’ve been told by some aspiring Dommes that they feel this is a high amount. In reality, this is a field in which you can charge $400+ per hour, which means that this investment can be returned within a few days of play. But perhaps more importantly, what I’m offering isn’t offered anywhere. When I was beginning this work, I could only have dreamt of such an opportunity. Instead, I had to learn the hard way – by working at the house for a year, getting paid only $100 per hour and constantly dealing with various unexpected restrictions from the owners. I wasn’t earning enough and the domination style I learned was very superficial and limited, so after working there for a year I had to start again on my own, and scared of the complexity of being independent.

It took me many years of learning, hard work, lessons and sessions to gain the deep understanding I have today. I have also made plenty of mistakes along the way and learned from them too.

I sincerely believe that what offer is of extreme value for aspiring Dommes. Which is why I will not share this knowledge with just anyone. As I said, I’ll only be training those who fully understand the commitment involved and who are serious about their training. Personally, I’m very much looking forward to meeting the amazing women who truly wish to learn the art of being an Alpha-fem.

 

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